Does spousal maintenance end at AOW age?

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No, spousal maintenance (partneralimentatie) does not automatically end when you or your former partner reach the state pension (AOW) age. It ends when its statutory or agreed term expires; only in one specific situation, a marriage of more than 15 years with a recipient close to pension age, is the AOW age itself the end date.

Reaching AOW age can still change the amount, because pension income affects both the recipient’s need and the payer’s ability to pay. Below we explain the statutory terms, when the AOW age is the end date, when a recipient can ask for an extension and how pension income can lead to a lower amount.

How long does spousal maintenance last?

For divorce petitions filed from 1 January 2020, spousal maintenance usually lasts half the length of the marriage, with a maximum of five years (Article 1:157 of the Dutch Civil Code, BW). The AOW age plays no role in that main rule.

Longer terms apply in some cases. If you have a child together under the age of 12, maintenance continues until the youngest child turns 12. For recipients born on or before 1 January 1970 after a marriage of more than 15 years, a transitional rule sets a term of ten years in certain cases. That transitional rule lapses on 1 January 2027.

If spousal maintenance was set or agreed before 1 January 2020, the old rules continue to apply, usually with a maximum of twelve years. Under those rules, too, the AOW age does not end the obligation by itself.

Whatever the term, spousal maintenance ends earlier if the recipient remarries, enters into a registered partnership or lives with someone else as if they were married or registered partners (Article 1:160 BW). It also ends when either former spouse dies.

When does the AOW age end spousal maintenance?

Only under the exception for long marriages. If the marriage lasted more than 15 years and the recipient was no more than ten years below the AOW age when the divorce petition was filed, spousal maintenance continues until the recipient reaches AOW age.

Both conditions must be met:

  1. The marriage had lasted more than 15 years when the divorce petition was filed.
  2. At that moment, the recipient was at most ten years younger than the AOW age that applies to them.

If you fall into this category, spousal maintenance ends when the recipient reaches AOW age, unless you agreed otherwise. In all other cases, the end date follows from the statutory term, the date agreed in your divorce settlement or the date set by the court. Check your settlement agreement carefully: parties can agree a different term, and the agreed date then applies.

Can the recipient ask for an extension beyond the AOW age?

Yes, but only in exceptional cases, and the request must be filed within three months after the maintenance term has ended. The court will only extend the term if ending maintenance would be so drastic that, in reasonableness and fairness, the recipient cannot be expected to accept it.

The recipient must file the request with the court; missing the three-month deadline means the entitlement is lost. The court assesses all circumstances of the case, including the recipient’s age, health, earning capacity and financial position, and the payer’s position.

What must the recipient prove?

The recipient carries the burden of proof. The recipient must show concrete facts that make the end of maintenance unacceptable, supported by documents.

The court looks closely at whether the recipient has done what could reasonably be expected to become financially independent. In a judgment of 19 December 2008 (ECLI:NL:HR:2008:BF3928), under the older twelve-year rules, the Supreme Court (Hoge Raad) upheld a refusal to extend in which this played a role. Relevant evidence includes job applications, training, medical information if health is an issue, and a full overview of income, assets and expenses.

Is a lack of pension enough for an extension?

Usually not on its own. A recipient who built up little pension during or after the marriage may present this as a circumstance, but courts do not readily treat it as exceptional by itself.

On divorce, the pension accrued by both spouses during the marriage is in principle divided, unless the spouses agreed otherwise. A low pension is also often a foreseeable consequence of choices made during and after the marriage. A lack of pension is more likely to carry weight in combination with other serious circumstances, such as long-term illness or a complete inability to work.

How does pension income affect the amount?

If the term has not yet ended, a change in income at AOW age can justify a new amount under Article 1:401 BW. Either party can ask the court to change the amount, or you can agree a new amount in writing.

When the recipient starts receiving AOW and any supplementary pension, their income changes. The payer can argue that this income reduces or even removes the recipient’s need (behoefte) for maintenance. The court then compares the recipient’s current income, including AOW, with the need based on the standard of living during the marriage. If the pension income covers that need, the court may reduce the maintenance to nil.

The same applies the other way round. When the payer reaches AOW age, their income usually drops, and with it their ability to pay (draagkracht). That too can be a reason to ask for a lower amount. Until an agreement or court decision is in place, the existing amount remains payable, so do not simply pay less on your own initiative. A non-variation clause in your settlement agreement (Article 1:159 BW) can stand in the way of a change, so check your agreement first.

What does the court do in these proceedings?

The court decides on the basis of the facts and documents the parties submit. It will not look for exceptional circumstances on its own initiative.

Who must provide the facts?

The party that relies on a circumstance must state it and, if disputed, prove it. If the recipient does not submit enough information about their financial position and their efforts to become independent, the court will generally reject a request for extension. For a request to reduce the amount, the payer must likewise substantiate the change in circumstances.

Can both parties respond to everything?

Yes. Under Article 19 of the Dutch Code of Civil Procedure (Rv), the court must give both parties the opportunity to respond to each other’s arguments and documents. The court may not base its decision on documents or calculations that one party has not been able to see and respond to.

What should you do before the AOW age?

Check your settlement agreement or court decision well in advance, so that you know when the term ends and whether a non-variation clause applies. Calculate what your income will be after AOW age, both as payer and as recipient.

If you receive maintenance and expect to need an extension, collect evidence of your efforts to become independent and of your financial position in good time, and file the request within three months after the term ends. If you pay maintenance and your income will drop, make a written proposal to your former partner first, and go to court if you cannot agree. Our divorce lawyers can assess the calculation and the chances of an extension or reduction.

In summary

  • Spousal maintenance does not end automatically at AOW age; it ends when the statutory or agreed term expires.
  • The AOW age is the end date only after a marriage of more than 15 years, if the recipient was within ten years of AOW age when the divorce petition was filed.
  • A recipient can ask for an extension in exceptional cases, within three months after the term ends, and must prove the circumstances.
  • A lack of pension alone is rarely enough for an extension.
  • AOW and pension income can justify a lower amount under Article 1:401 BW, for either side.

Frequently asked questions

Can the recipient ask for an extension after reaching AOW age?

Yes, if ending maintenance would be so drastic that, in reasonableness and fairness, the recipient cannot be expected to accept it. The request must be filed with the court within three months after the maintenance term ends. The court applies a strict test, and the recipient must prove exceptional circumstances and show efforts to become financially independent.

Can the payer argue that the recipient made too little effort to become independent?

Yes. Whether the recipient did what could reasonably be expected to become financially independent is an important factor in the court’s assessment. If the recipient did not look for work or adjust their spending, that weighs against an extension.

What must the recipient prove for an extension?

The recipient must show with documents why ending maintenance would be unacceptable. Relevant evidence includes their age, medical information if health is an issue, job applications and a full overview of income, assets and expenses.

Does a lack of pension justify an extension?

Usually not on its own. Pension accrued during the marriage is in principle divided on divorce, and a low pension is often a foreseeable result of earlier choices. It can carry weight in combination with other serious circumstances, such as long-term illness.

Can AOW and pension income end the need for spousal maintenance?

They can. Receiving AOW and a supplementary pension is a change of circumstances under Article 1:401 BW. The payer can ask the court to recalculate the maintenance. If the recipient’s pension income covers the need based on the standard of living during the marriage, the court can reduce the maintenance to nil.

Will the court look for exceptional circumstances itself?

No. The court decides on the facts the parties put forward. If the recipient submits insufficient evidence of exceptional circumstances or of efforts to become independent, the court will generally reject the request for extension.

Can the court use documents I have not seen?

No. Under Article 19 Rv, both parties must have the opportunity to see and respond to all arguments and documents. The court may not base its decision on information that one party has not been able to contest.

Law & More advises former spouses on spousal maintenance, extensions and changes to the amount. Unsure where you stand? Tell us about your situation. We will let you know your options within one working day.

Aylin Acar
Aylin Acar is an attorney-at-law at Law & More in Eindhoven and Amsterdam. She works primarily in personal and family law, and puts the client’s own interests at the centre of every case.

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